This is from the Sleeplady's website and I get her emails. I don't agree with all of her info as she doesn't really follow Weissbluth (so she has bedtime and naps all on the later side and I think she has lower than average sleep needs for toddlers and preschoolers especially and dropping naps) but this was interesting as it talked about various ages of sleep disturbances. I have heard there are various ages of typical regressions and you have to do a bit of retraining or whatnot. So I thought that part was relevant. (One other part is I didn't know about Wonder Weeks til recently and they have a chart of various developmental leaps and I suspect that this coincides a lot with these regression periods. She states in her article these regression periods are developmental so that jives with the wonder weeks concept....developmental changes in them and then things stabilize out. So she very well may not even know about Wonder Weeks as that may be a relatively new term but the main thing is during these periods it seems to be mainly developmental leaps and sometimes it just needs to be ridden out til it passes as best as you can. And I ALWAYS used early bedtime during wonky phases where sleep goes off as it really helps keep the overtired at bay. Otherwise if they overtired you can get into a vicious cycle)
http://www.sleeplady.com/baby-sleep-problems/will-babys-sleep-regression-end/?inf_contact_key=d149e07ff5ebdbaff1c167bbd03eaa9166760671f160ed3254a8c28a4621a7db
When Will My Baby’s Sleep Regression End?
If
you’re asking yourself this question, chances are that you’ve been
short on sleep, and so has your very cranky, sleep-fighting baby. Sleep
regressions are difficult for all of us, but thankfully most children
(not all, but most) don’t experience every sleep regression. If they
did, no one would sleep during the first two years!On the chance that you’re wondering whether your baby or toddler is currently going through a sleep regression, there are a few questions that you can ask yourself to help clarify:
• Has your previous well-napped baby been refusing naps?
• Did your baby recently learn a new skill (rolling over, sitting up, starting solids, crawling, walking, etc.)?
• Has your baby been hungry more often than “normal”?
• Is your baby close to one of the known ages for a sleep regression?
Contrary to popular belief, sleep regressions don’t just “happen”. They usually occur in sync with a new skill, your baby’s development, or even a growth spurt. The most common months for sleep regressions are:
4 Months
Your baby is just realizing that there is a whole world around him. They’re starting to understand that those are THEIR feet, and that mom is a separate person.
8-9 Months
Sometime between 8-9 months, your baby is beginning to develop his gross motor skills, and may have recently started crawling or even pulling up onto the furniture and cruising around your living room. He also is beginning to categorize, and understand that not everything is the same.
10-12 Months
During the pre-toddler period, your baby is realizing that there are sequences to the way things are done. He may be fascinated by stacking cups or blocks. Your baby may also start walking, which is another huge developmental milestone.
18 Months
Your toddler’s language really begins to ramp up around 18 months, and likely, you’ve also dropped from two naps to one. You may have also noticed that your toddler is experimenting with tantrums.
2 Years
Your toddler now understands that he has a choice in things, and the power struggles begin. He’s also learning about consequences, and cause and effect. Language may also play a major role during this period of development.
Thankfully, sleep regressions don’t last forever.
Sleep Regressions Usually Last Between 2 and 6 Weeks
Please understand that some babies may experience sleep problems for a longer period, but the majority of babies will average out to about 4 weeks of sleep challenges. I get so many questions from parents about when they can start sleep coaching if their baby is currently showing signs of a sleep regression.
While it’s never a good idea to start sleep coaching in the middle of a sleep regression, you can begin to introduce the concept around 3-4 weeks after the onset of your baby’s sleep regression for babies older than 6 months. If you were mid-coaching, then you can pick up where you left off.
In the meantime, do your best to keep your soothing bedtime routine, and provide extra love and support. Understand that this is just as hard on your baby as it is on you.
Be Careful To Avoid Creating a Negative Sleep Pattern
Be careful that you don’t allow a sleep regression to become the new norm. It’s perfectly fine to do what works during a sleep regression. It will likely be the only way that anyone can get any sleep. Just know that most babies are ready to begin sleep coaching after about 4 weeks of sleep struggles brought on by developmental changes. If you find that you’re 5, 7, or even 10 weeks in, take a good hard look at what’s going on.
Has your baby mastered rolling over? Is he cruising around the house like nobody’s business? Has he mastered walking between the sofa and the mom? If he has, then you’re stuck with some poor sleep habits, and should start sleep coaching as soon as possible so that they don’t become all encompassing for your baby’s sleep.
If you have inadvertently created a negative sleep association, don’t despair! You can sleep coach your child and help her to adjust to falling asleep without the newly created sleep crutch.
How to Ease Back Into Sleep Coaching After Experiencing a Sleep Regression
While your child is experiencing a sleep regression, it’s important to make sure that he’s getting enough sleep by encouraging sleep any way you can. Whether that’s in a stroller, car, with you, or in a swing. It’s important to remember that sleep regressions are not a sleep coaching issue, but rather they’re developmental.
If your baby is coming out of a sleep regression, you may notice that…
• your baby is suddenly more receptive to naps;
• nighttime sleep comes easier when just the day before it was a struggle; or
• your baby’s appetite seems to have normalized.
If you notice these cues, sit down and take some time to select a day to start sleep coaching. I suggest that you try to make the beginning of your sleep coaching coincide with a weekend or holiday so that you have at least two days to rest and get used to the new routine.
If you’re just starting sleep coaching, you’ll want to review the 10 steps to take before sleep coaching as well. If you’ve already started, you may want to regress one chair position (so if you were in the hall, move your chair by the door) for the first three nights before moving your chair back to your previous position.
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